The question then becomes whether the State should
recognize homosexual relationships as marriage. The answer is no. The State has
no compelling interest in recognizing such relationships. This would be clear
had those who affirm homosexual unions not muddied the water by declaring that
the government should not dictate whom we may “love.” This language has muddied
the water because the State has no real interest in whom any of us love. If the
issue was about love, the government would not get involved at all. Why does
Washington care if I love one person more than another? The answer is that they
do not care at all. So why is government involved in marriage at all? The answer is that the State has a compelling
interest in maintaining a stable and prosperous society. For this reason
governments have privileged marriage above all other social arrangements. The
state has historically encouraged marriage because it benefits society. The
statistics are undeniable. Marriage is the single most powerful tool we have to
keep women and children from falling into poverty. Marriage also has a powerful
civilizing influence on men. Married men focus their energies on building the
community and providing for their families. Unmarried men tend to engage in
anti-social and even predatory conduct.
So what does this have to do with the issue at hand? The
answer is that the compelling concerns that cause government to regulate and
encourage marriage do not exist in homosexual relationships. Homosexual
relationships do not produce children. Granted, homosexuals do sometimes have
children, but in every case a third party must be involved. The homosexual
relationship itself is not the source of procreation. As for the civilizing
effect marriage has on men, homosexual men simply are not known for monogamy. Homosexual
men tend to have many sexual partners, it is simply a part of the lifestyle. 78%
of homosexual men report having more than 100 partners. 28% report having more
than 1000 (https://carm.org/statistics-homosexual-promiscuity). This accounts
for the fact that HIV and AIDs have remained a largely homosexual problem
rather than spreading to the general population.
The government has no compelling interest in mandating
homosexual marriage. The church has no Biblical basis for recognizing
homosexual marriages. So why do so many see this as a crucial issue for our
day? Because the issue has been sold as a matter of civil rights. Shouldn’t
homosexuals have the same rights as heterosexuals? The answer is that they
already do. Any homosexual man who wants to marry a woman can do so. The truth
is that a homosexual union simply is not a marriage as it has been defined for
more than 5000 years in virtually every world religion. The battle today is not
about civil rights, but about redefining marriage. Defining homosexual
relationships as marriage may not seem like a significant change, but such a
change will inevitably open a Pandora’s box of social chaos. If we buy the
argument that we should be allowed to marry anyone we want, then why can’t a
man marry two women, or two men, or an animal? The very arguments advanced in
favor of homosexual marriage lead inevitably to the destruction of traditional
marriage as a privileged social
unit. If heterosexual marriage is no longer granted special status, then
governments can no longer encourage it. If government can no longer encourage
heterosexual marriage, then we will see a decline in the already faltering
family unit that is the foundation of a civilized society. Make no mistake
about it, this is a life and death issue for our nation. If the traditional family
unit continues to unravel, so will our nation. Do not think that America is
invulnerable. I firmly believe that America’s ultimate destiny will depend
wholly on whether we affirm the teaching of God’s word. I am not alone in that
sentiment. President Ronald Reagan warned the country that “without God, democracy will not and cannot long
endure. If we ever forget that we’re one nation under God, then we will be a
nation gone under.” He was right.